Bad things for good opportunity

We often find hardships as a negative occurrence in our lives, sometimes you think that it happens because life has a way to turn things around when you least expect it. You sometimes think that the universe is against you but in fact. It’s just the way it is.

Jim Carrey once said “Life doesn’t happen to you, it happens for you’’ meaning, you are not that special sad to say, because all of us is special and life doesn’t have a favorite, life happens for all of us, it does not happen to individual persons who think that life hates them.

“Life hates them.”

I really hate that thinking where an individual think that life hates them. All of the negative aspects, mishaps, and unlucky events happen because they think that life hates them. I’m here to tell you up front that It doesn’t happen like that. If that is how you perceive life, then it will all boil down to that stage. I mean come on, you have the time to divert this thought and think about those bad moments or the bad moments that is about to happen, to be an opportunity.

Bad things may hurt you, but the way I see it, it’s either you run from it and blab about it all day or you can learn from it.

Opportunity.

Bad things happen because it’s the way of life to give us an opportunity. An opportunity in life where we try to tell ourselves that “hey I learned from this s***” and you walk along and tell those stories to people on how you made a mistake and how you learned from it. Making people learn from your mistakes.

So in every time that you are about to face a bad situation, face it.  There will also be times that you know something bad is about to happen, now in that situations, try to think positive, because the more you think of something bad, the more you will attract it.

Life is so beautiful and too short to stress yourself with things that will kill you, thinking about those mishaps and bad events that is about to happen will just make you look older. Make it an opportunity to learn, don’t contemplate and whine about it, be ready and brace yourself from it, and if it happens, then try to ask yourself what could you have done to prevent it, ask for ways to improve it, learn from it. 

That is the opportunity.